Relationships are never always easy. It is normal to hit some bumps in the road or to even have long stretches where you and your partner have a hard time connecting. Couples who are lucky enough to seem to get along more often than not have probably discovered a little secret early on in their marriage. That secret is to show love and affection often. Doing small things often makes BIG differences.
Imagine stopping on the way home from work and grabbing dinner from their favorite restaurant or picking up their favorite dessert. They may have had a difficult day on the job, their patience may be running thin or you both simply seem to have lost your intimacy lately. If you were to walk in the door with something that you took the time to select just for them on the way home; you will have broken the tension in the air with love and consideration. This is a small yet powerful gesture that will change the mood and give your relationship the little boost that you need.
If you are feeling like ‘ships passing in the night’ because of kids, commitments or work, figure out some small things you can do to make a powerful impact. Maybe you can put a note in his/her car or send a text throughout the day here are some ideas:
I don’t know much but I do know I love you!
I love you not because of anything you have, but because of something that I feel when I’m near you.
I love you for you, but mostly I love your for what I am when I’m with you.
For the rest of my life, I will count everyday with you well spent.
Would you even be ready for this?????
In order to change tedious or tired routines or to inspire intimacy, see how little effort is required.
Oh, that wasn’t your thing?
Try these on for size:
Tape a note on the television that says, “Wouldn’t you rather turn me on?” instead. If he or she is enjoying a good book, remove the bookmark and replace it with a note that says, “I bet you’ll never guess where I’ve hidden your bookmark.”
Remember the small things you used to do when you first got together that would make your heart flutter and put a twinkle in your eye? Do them again! When you go shopping, for a walk or you’re just sitting together watching TV, hold hands, link arms or put your arm around him/her. These simple, small acts can really go far when it comes to sparking a little romance in your marriage and connecting. They can break the monotony of a relationship or help your partner to feel appreciated and loved. You can expect to feel the same in return!
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